General Rule for Widows: Believers are to look after widows
Specific Rule for Widows: The Church should support widows who are true widows
The Contrast: Don't put younger widows on the list for required help from the Church

1. Help can be offered but not required

2. Allow younger widows to get married again, without making a pledge to God

A. The Church needs to help protect their reputation

B. This eliminates them from challenging situations

3. Encourage them to get married and be a wife.